fix(ios): fix paused video by default (#4379)

* fix: update style to allow show control click
* fix: push missing revert

examples/bare/src/styles.tsx

@@ -86,6 +86,7 @@ const styles = StyleSheet.create({
     fontSize: 11,
     color: 'white',
     padding: 10,
+    paddingTop: 50,
     lineHeight: 12,
   },
   controlOption: {

examples/expo/src/styles.tsx

@@ -86,6 +86,7 @@ const styles = StyleSheet.create({
     fontSize: 11,
     color: 'white',
     padding: 10,
+    paddingTop: 50,
     lineHeight: 12,
   },
   controlOption: {

ios/Video/RCTVideo.swift

@@ -1538,7 +1538,9 @@ class RCTVideo: UIView, RCTVideoPlayerViewControllerDelegate, RCTPlayerObserverH
 
         guard _isPlaying != isPlaying else { return }
         _isPlaying = isPlaying
-        _paused = !isPlaying
+        if _controls {
+            _paused = !isPlaying
+        }
         onVideoPlaybackStateChanged?(["isPlaying": isPlaying, "isSeeking": self._pendingSeek == true, "target": reactTag as Any])
     }